Since this blog is affectionately titled Just the Three of Us I felt its only right that I update you on the girls and me. Nia is back in school after spending half of her winter break in Atlanta and the other half lounging with Winter and me. She's still an awesome big sister keeping herself occupied and helping with her sister when needed.
I had a refreshing conversation with her Dad yesterday. My goal for 2012 is to talk to people rather than at or about them. I discussed my relationship with my Dad or lack thereof and explained how important it is that he spend as much time as possible with Nia especially with my current situation. He voiced understanding and we both were amicable. Talk about progress. We have no choice. Ania's success is the goal. We've got to do everything possible to make it happen.
As far as my new gift is concerned, she's growing by leaps and bounds. She's just as beautiful as her sister and smart too. My only concern is that she has yet to meet her Dad and I can't tell her when she will. I fault myself in both situations. How could someone who knows from experience how important a father is pass these situations to her children? I won't dwell on it though. I can only assure them that I love them more than a million mommies and daddies and that I'll always be here.
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Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Friday, January 6, 2012
Saturday, December 17, 2011
Is What's Good for the Goose Good for the Gander?
A friend of mine called me to say he had to let his daughter know he and his girlfriend broke up recently (after October). He said he told his daughter that Daddy would have friends because he realized she would develop relationships based on what she witnessed from her parents. I was shocked to learn that after being broken up for a month he was introducing his daughter to his "friend" and taking said "friend" to his family's holiday party. Today's blog poses some questions. Had this been the actions of the little girl's mother, how receptive would the girl's Dad have been? Should the girl's Mom voice concerns to her Dad? Is what's good for the goose good for the gander?
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